I was angry with God after my ex-boyfriend’s death – Teniola Aladese

 

Actress and producer Teniola Aladese has revealed how she struggled to come to terms with the tragedy of losing her ex-boyfriend.

In an interview on With Chude, Aladese revealed that her ex-boyfriend passed away just months after their breakup, leaving her with a deep sense of loss and anger towards God.

The actress, known for her role in The Christmas in Lagos, questioned God’s purpose behind her ex-boyfriend’s untimely death, citing his talent, plans and potential.

However, Aladese said she found solace in believing that her ex-boyfriend fulfilled his purpose during his time on earth, leaving a lasting impact on those who knew him.

She said: “He passed a couple of months after we broke up and was even dating someone else after we ended things. We still remained friends, but after he passed, it was a huge blow – on me, on his friends, on his family members. I don’t even want to know how his mum copes. He was the only son. One daughter, one son.

“For me, it took a lot of reassurance that people come into this world for a certain purpose. Because the reason I was angry with God was that this guy had his whole life ahead of him. He was so talented, he was a writer. He had plans to direct and even after we broke up, he said to me, ‘You are still going to produce my films.’ And so there were all these plans, and just like that, accident and the guy goes. I am like, ‘Why would you allow this to happen?

“Now what I use to console myself is that he was here for a purpose. He left his mark. All of us that were his friends remember him for who he was and for how good of a person he was”.